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Here's how you get in

Here's how you get in

The Gathering of Men now lives on Heartbeat. It's where the conversations happen between the gatherings, where the resources live, where events are posted, and where the brothers stay connected through the week. No more scattered WhatsApp groups, no more missed updates, no more trying to find that one link someone shared three weeks ago.


Heartbeat is our home online the way Wilgenweg is our home in person. One place, everything in it, built around the men in the room.

What's inside

  • the full events calendar with one-tap RSVPs for gatherings, events, meditation, potluck dinners, and immersions.

  • Direct access to the resource library: different resources based on your needs. From men's work to business frameworks.

  • Dedicated conversation channels, for circles, business, music and more

  • Your onboarding path, assessment, and big brother pairing all in one place

  • Announcements, updates, and the kind of conversations that used to get buried in group chats

  • More coming in the near future!

Why Heartbeat and not WhatsApp?

Why Heartbeat and not WhatsApp?

Because the community outgrew the group chat. Heartbeat gives us a proper home: events, content, discussions, and membership all in one platform. Nothing gets lost, everything has a place, and you can move through it at your own pace without scrolling past 200 messages to find what matters.

Two ways in

Guest Member — free Curious about the community? Join as a Guest Member and look around. You'll get access to the public spaces, the events calendar, and a feel for who's in the room. No commitment, no payment, no pressure.

Full Member Ready to be in the room? Choose your membership type and tier: The Gatherings, The Launchpad, and/or The Operator and get full access to everything: resources, channels, events, mentorship pairing, and the brothers.

Need help deciding?

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Stay in the loop of
all that's happening.

Our emails are meant to engage & inspire you. Every email has a valuable insight that you can directly apply. We also communicate other's stories, updates, events and community happenings.

© 2025 The Gathering of Men | All rights reserved.