The Gathering of Men
Filmclub

The Gathering of Men
Filmclub

Engage with films beyond entertainment. Screenings and discussions focused on sharing opinions and conversations around masculinity and the male archetypes.

Filmclub

Filmclub

Film Club is an evening for people who love getting immersed in movies and then discussing what they experienced. Most of the films we watch have a link to the representation of masculinity. Our shared goal is to let the power of visual storytelling inspire a healthy masculine energy and to confront the shadow sides of our experiences as men. One night at a time in a safe space, together.

Our filmclub evenings

Entertainment alone fades. We turn what a film stirs in us into insight we can use. After the film we talk about what we saw and what it did to us, from psychological to cultural and mythological themes.

We make sure to provide an atmosphere close to a cinema experience: Large screen, good audio, comfy seats. Further more we make sure that we mostly have healthy snacks (besides popcorn of course).

What can you expect when you join a seat;

  1. Director insight: After each screening, the host introduces the director with a few notes on their life and artistic influences that shaped the film.


  2. Quick sharing round: Each participant is invited to give ratings in 3 areas:

  1. Cinematography and Soundtrack (visuals, music, atmosphere)

  2. Content (theme, storyline, characters)

  3. Acting (performances, emotional depth)

  1. Group discussion on masculinity: We dive into the film’s exploration of masculinity, including archetypes like King, Warrior, Magician, Lover, and themes like fatherhood. All debates are welcome, including whether the softer or harder side of manhood is desired in the modern world.


  2. Personal takeaways: We close the night with everyone sharing what they are reflecting on and taking into their own lives from the film or the discussion.


Film Club is a chance to view films not just as entertainment, but as a mirror for our shared (hu)man experience. Based on your thoughts shared, you leave with an insight to keep and a small action to try before the next screening!

Filmclub evening

See overview for more info & ticket.

Offering overview

These sessions are part of our activities membership or can be joined with a loose ticket

1st of November, 18:00 - 21:30

Naritaweg 12, Amsterdam

Investment loose Ticket:
€17,50,- incl. VAT


Meet The Team

Meet The Team

Meet The Team

Lucas Defares

Host & Brother

Get in touch
Maybe you're not quite ready to join a live event

All good, we've got you covered, start off with ease by joining our whatsapp group, to slowly dip your toes in the water and get a feel for the group.


Inside you'll find a whole community of men ready to connect, share and grow together.

Clean kitchen with wooden flooring
Get in touch
Maybe you're not quite ready to join a live event

All good, we've got you covered, start off with ease by joining our whatsapp group, to slowly dip your toes in the water and get a feel for the group.


Inside you'll find a whole community of men ready to connect, share and grow together.

Clean kitchen with wooden flooring
Get in touch
Maybe you're not quite ready to join a live event

All good, we've got you covered, start off with ease by joining our whatsapp group, to slowly dip your toes in the water and get a feel for the group.


Inside you'll find a whole community of men ready to connect, share and grow together.

Clean kitchen with wooden flooring

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